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ATTENTION, LOVED-UP COUPLES...
First time planning a wedding? Trying to figure out how to piece this shebang together?
Unless you live and breathe spreadsheets, managing budgets and resolving family conflicts, planning one of the happiest days of your life? It ain't always fun and joyful. Oh, the irony we know.
See, weddings - no matter the size - involve a bit of work. And unless you're a party planner by trade, chances are you might be feeling a bit in the dark. Perhaps you're battling FOMO at every corner (or, every Instagram scroll #beenthere). Uncertain whether you've covered everything. Shocked by the costs.
And also, conscious that this should be a day about you both - not just a tick-box milestone. So how do we make sure it truly says "this is us"?
Can you imagine...
- Saving an enormous amount of time, stress and money while wedding planning because you’ve identified exactly what’s most important to you?
- Having on-demand experts at your fingertips to help answer any of your wedding planning questions?
- Access to an unparalleled amount of resources and guides to walk you through EXACTLY how to plan an authentic, meaningful wedding, from start to finish (or, from wherever you’re up to)?
- Learning how to manage potential conflict between families, wedding suppliers and even your other half - and having word-for-word templates to help you through any curly situations?
- Being a part of a community of people going through the exact same life stage right now that you can lean on for support, advice and inspo?
- Getting to the end of this journey and feeling 100% confident that you created a day that truly said “this is us”?
Sounds good? Maybe too good? It's not. It's the way it should be.
✨ Join the club. Literally. ✨
Introducing We Do Crew - for all your online wedding planning needs. ✨
Consider your hand officially held. We Do Crew takes you from "no clue" to "I do" and everywhere in between.
So, what is We Do Crew?
We Do Crew is a wedding wikipedia that offers couples the most comprehensive, generous, no-holds-barred guides and resources to plan a wedding with minimum stress and maximum good vibes.
We understand that for most people, getting married is a brand new experience. And we’re not into going through the motions for the sake of it (no sirree). Instead, our goal is to empower couples to create a day that feels deeply personal to them.
We do this by helping you get super clear on what their priorities are and what they want the day to look and feel like. And by doing this, budgeting for a wedding (or allocating a budget if you’ve already set it) becomes so much easier as you know what you need to put your funds toward and what’s just a ‘nice to have’.
Let’s be honest (because if you join the crew, you’ll realise that’s how we tend to roll): aside from saying those ‘I do’s’ in a legal sense, the rest of a wedding is just fluff. Beautiful, joy-bringing fluff, but fluff nonetheless.
We’re here to help ensure that your fluff is the best damn fluff you could have ever fluffing asked for. The kind of fluff that represents you both and thus allows you to host a day with zero regrets. The way a wedding should be.
What's inside?
- A 'Wedipedia' of wedding planning - literally EVERYTHING you could possibly need to know about planning your wedding is covered across 60 chapters in five modules related to the different wedding planning stages, with videos too.
- A suite of planning tools and resources, including our Ultimate Wedding Work -sheet (think to-do list, interactive budget, pre-filled wedding run sheet, venue and vendor comparison checklist, and more).
- Our speech-writing workshop and vow-writing guide (which take you through step-by-step how to nail both).
- Exclusive discounts on alcohol, fashion, beauty and travel to save you hundreds on your wedding!
- Access to hundreds of real couple Q&A's so you can sift through the best, non-biased advice on every topic you can think of.
- A supportive, like-minded community of couples who get it. A forum full of non-judgmental advice and guidance so you celebrate your day, your way.
- BONUS: Spotify wedding playlists, text and email templates for curly situations, a guide to making traditions your own, "making things legal" post-big-day checklist, beauty hacks, a HUGE chapter on COVID-19 + weddings and MORE.
No more struggling. No more worrying. No more wasting time.
Become a member today and you'll also get access to exclusive brand discounts. ✨
BONUS
Love it or leave it - anytime.
No lock-in terms.
Wedding planning is all about flexibility. We know things change, especially in todays' climate. We Do Crew has no lock-in contract - pause or cancel your membership at any time.
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Choose the best plan for you...
HAVE WE MET?
We're Amy and Mel.
Hello! Consider us your new virtual bridesmaids.
We're the co-founders of the wedding platform Wedshed and your planning sidekicks who are here for the long haul - from YES to WE DO (and beyond).
Over the last eight years working in the industry, we've had the pleasure of helping thousands of couples find their dream venue, hire incredible wedding teams and plan their ultimate wedding days. We've also planned our own weddings and many of our friend's weddings too.
We know first hand that emotions are HIGH, everyone wants a say and that no two weddings are the same. Along with our expert contributors, we've left no stone unturned and no question unanswered - and we'll be with you all the way to 'WE DID' 🎉.
Let's look at your 'Wedipedia' and break it down.
MODULE ONE
Getting started
Consider this your intro to wedding planning. It's the who (guests), what (style), where (location) and why how much (budget). We think you've got the why down-pat.
A snapshot from this module includes:
- A simple, must-do exercise to set your wedding priorities (no matter what stage you're at)
- How to properly and accurately set a wedding budget
- Traditions: what they are, and how to decide whether to adopt, adapt or ditch (+ alternative ideas)
- How to set a date and choose your wedding location
- How to decide on a guest number and useful tips to cull your guest list
- and so much more
MODULE TWO
Your wedding team
Say hello to your guardian angels. Your wedding vendors are the folks you'll engage to make your wedding literally happen. And we cannot understate how much more stress-free and pleasurable your wedding planning experience will be if you pick good'uns. We'll show you how.
A snapshot from this module includes:
- A deep dive into what each of the most common wedding vendors does behind the scenes of a wedding
- Tips on how to choose your A-team
- The questions to ask vendors before you book them
- Factors that affect quote prices you you
- A breakdown of average prices for different services
- When to book each of your vendors
- and so much more
MODULE THREE
The planning
The juicy meat in the wedding sandwich. We go through all the important elements step-by-step to help you figure out what's relevant for you (and what you can leave behind).
A snapshot from this module includes:
- The different types of weddings you can have (and how to decide what’s right for you)
- Cocktail vs. sit-down weddings,
- DIY vs. done-for-you and figuring out your balance
- What to put on your invites or ‘save-the-date’ and when to send them
- All things wedding party, kids at weddings (or not) and pets
- How to manage unexpected conflict and unsolicited opinions, as well as family pressure
- The truth about wedding dresses and wedding dress-codes broken down
- A total guide to wedding styling
- An entire chapter dedicated to wedding florals
- Sustainability, disability, planning etiquette
- and SO much more
MODULE FOUR
The lead-up
The final countdown! Specifically, the last six weeks. Here we check off things like writing your speech, seating chart, beauty, music playlists and living it up at your hens/bucks/hucks? party!
A snapshot from this module includes:
- A 5-step guide to write your wedding speech in an hour
- Our much-loved vow-writing guide
- MC duties: what exactly they are and who you should choose
- A timeline of your wedding day
- Checklists for the week of your wedding, the day before and what to bring on the day
- Tips for managing all weather scenarios
- A chapter on wellbeing. It's super important at this stage
- and SO much more
MODULE FIVE
On the day
Ding dang dong: the day is here! We want to get you so prepared that the only thing you'll be lifting is that cold champers glass to your well-hydrated lips.
A snapshot from this module includes:
- Checklists for on-the-day, the set-up, an emergency kit and an overnight bag if you’re making a weekend of it
- Do’s and don’t’s for the day
- How to make the most of time with your guests
- Tips and considerations for your photo sessions
- Ensuring you’re left with no regrets
- and so much more
MODULE SIX
Now what?
So the day's gonna be amazing - but then there's life after-wedding. So...what's that look like? We'll talk you through some short and long-term stuff.
A snapshot from this module includes:
- How to organise a post-wedding recovery session
- Official to-do’s after the wedding to make things, well, official
- Tips on thanking your vendors
- Some honeymoon considerations
- Final thoughts on life ahead
- and so much more
LIVE Q&A's AND WORKSHOPS
Join us for live Q&As (and watch previous ones anytime) and access workshops to help you nail your speech and vows.
INDUSTRY EXPERTS
Listen to industry experts share their best advice and tips and tackle hard topics as voted by our crew.
COMMUNITY
Ask questions directly to your fellow crew-members and search through advice via a forum-style community
TEMPLATES
Access email and text templates to tackle any tricky or prickly situations that might arise with clarity and confidence.
When you join We Do Crew
Feeling like you’re going through the motions and unsure if you’re spending your budget on the stuff that’s really going to matter to you long-term.
Knowing EXACTLY what’s important to you so you’re investing in the things that will make your day most memorable and personal to you.
Feeling lonely in the journey - like your friends and family can’t really relate to the experience you’re going through.
Seen. Heard. Understood. We know you’re managing different expectations, financial pressures, pandemic uncertainty, and demands on your time (juggling work, family, life and your relationship). We see you because we are you. And you’ll join an open-minded virtual community of couples going through the same thing that you can lean on without fear of judgment.
Feeling like you’re in the dark about how the wedding industry works... perhaps even a little intimidated about how to choose and work with wedding vendors in a way thats right for your personal tastes and budget.
Completely informed. We’ll teach you exactly what every single wedding vendor does, how to choose your team, what their average costs are, questions to ask them, when to book them, things that affect quotes and so much more. We bring you nothing but utter transparency and lift the lid on what happens behind the scenes so you feel fully in-the-know as you engage amazing suppliers that you feel excited to work with.
No matter what wedding planning stage you're at
YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE.
Whether you're newly engaged or on the home stretch, there’s huge value every step of the way. We know everyone is at a different point along the journey, which is why our membership is payable monthly with no lock-in commitment. Join for as long as you need.
JOIN WE DO CREW TODAY
Let's go through some FAQs.
I’m already over halfway through planning our wedding - do I still need this?
Is this membership relevant, given we plan on having a very ‘non-traditional’ wedding?
We were thinking of hiring a wedding planner. Does this membership replace the need for one?
How much does it cost to join We Do Crew?
Can I cancel anytime?
Isn't wedding planning straightforward?
Plan your best day yet with ease
...and a crew of like-minded legends supporting you along the way.
